Originally Posted By: AntoniaB


On the other hand, he also professed how great it was to me that she has a whole independent PUBLIC life from him as a performer--she is a former state beauty queen whose talent was singing. (it took her 3 years to win and let's just say the state beauty queens from my state are NOT a whole lot to look at, but I digress...) Anyway she is one of those local theater people--big fish, small pond, who gets to star in practically every musical or play that goes on in this theater company.



I laughed out loud at this. Let's face it these women are drama queens. Seriously your h sounds like a teenager. I think he deserves her more than he knows. Right now they are playing romantic lovers ..... if it hadn't hurt us so much it would be funny and pathetic in equal parts.

Further down the line it all goes horribly wrong, but by then we have usually moved on and they are too dumb to sort themselves out. I am sorry for the mess my h has made of his life, and his failed relationships with his kids and his untreated depression . . . .