Don't dismiss the male friend just yet. Still waters run deep.
Antonia, anyone who won't take you to dinner without sleeping with you doesn't deserve your friendship, or anything else.
We are now facing the dog days of Winter; of course they are all dog days in my book. The looming horror of Valentine's Day. Although my H's idea of a romantic gesture was . . . . Oh Hell, I don't think he could even handle a romantic gesture.
Our hearts may falter, but our resolve will stay strong. Next year Mila, I want you to tell me how YOU enjoyed the Polar Bear Swim. I just want to see it while not in a bear hug with the toilet!
I sound like I'm running for election, don't I -- minus the toilet thing.
Short of it is, Mila - we've all traveled a long hard road, and although this is just a date on a calender, I truly believe it will be a turning point for us all. You have accomplished some incredibly difficult things with your H and business. You will continue to do so.
Oh, and the New Year's Text from H while on a date with OW. Funny where his mind was, isn't it? ((HUGS))
ME: 54 Him: 51 M: 20 years T: 21 years OW/New wife: 36 Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36) Bomb: March 4, 2010 He Filed: April 28, 2010 I Contested: May 1, 2010 Standing Down: 11/24/10 Divorced : 05/04/2011