I have too spent many times in prayer about my sitch and feel that if I were to look to another man now I would not be honoring my sacramental marriage. My H and I too have been involved with the Church and parish life through out our marriage. Actually, last night at Mass I thought about when H and I started dating and I invited him to come to Mass with me on Saturday nights before our dates and how he converted to Catholicism because he came to love the Church so much. We have raised our daughter in the faith and in April she will make her confirmation. Our whole marriage we have prayed and felt God guide in so many of the major decisions of our marriage. He told me recently that he was never the religious one, and that I was, you could have knocked me over with a feather. This is the biggest lie, and he has turned his back on God. You know what is sad, after the years of his parents seeing our commitment to God and the Church also converted. He was so proud when that happened.
So, I pray for him everyday and throughout the day. I pray for his soul and pray for him to find his way back to God. That is what he needs to do first. Then maybe he will find his way back to me, but I want a Godly man first and know that is what I need to see in H if he ever wanted to reconcile.
So pray for your W and for her to find her way to happiness through God. Because for someone who has had God in their lives so long, needs to fill that part of her first before she finds true happiness with herself.
God Bless and I pray that 2011 will be a year of conversions for our spouses to find their way back God.
Lorie W47 H48 D16 M20 H gone 11/9/10 lives w/OW
When you forgive,you heal. When you let go,you grow. When you cry to God, you surrender. When you love unconditionally, you show others Christ's love.
