If someone would like to respond to this I'd appreciate it. Anyway, the situation is that my H lives next door. When he moved over a month ago I pretty much cut off contact with him for three weeks. Then on Christmas he spent pretty much the entire day here. I then asked if he would like to start spending time together just to get to know each other again. He said that would be fine in fact I could start coming over occasionally to spend some time at his place after the kids went to bed (my oldest is 16). So first night I didn't know what to expect but is was very nice and we ended up sleeping together. This has now happened twice. During a lot of our marriage I would reject him sexually and the last few months before he left after he told me he wanted a seperation he wasn't interested which he said it was because he felt pressured. He has enjoyed the last two times as have I. I've recently lost 70 pounds and it has seemed to reawakened my sex drive. I'm just wondering is this kind of crazy or should I just go with it?