Even if it's not what you want. I assure you she is giving you everything she has right now. Appreciate that.
I know you were directing that to SBH, but I appreciate what you've said in that quote and I hope it will help others to understand that which ever side of the fence we might be....it is hell for both. But if "love" is the bottom line....both of you can recover.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!