Well blessed, you sound a little like you are on both sides of the fence depending on what your wife does. JMO. But i can tell you i was a success story 3 years ago as well. After we had a child, i started slipping back into my old sarcastic ways again, not reading the bible, and some other stressors, and thats why i am here again. I keep going back and forth, but its the same story except in have a 22 month old son now. I have an appt to see a lawyer monday, i have no intention on filing for the D, just need to get some king of SA in place to protect me financially.
I think where sandi was going was you need to have a solid goal, and it sounds like you have two, i may be wrong though as i have been before....
M - 42 W - 41 Married 9 years July 24, 2010 WAW moved out 8-9-10 2nd Marriage for Both S 2 SS 13 from W first Marriage