Fix me, fix my life, win back my wife

[ScaredinCanada]

Yes, my M does not like my W - really never has.

She didn't like that she didn't want to goto college/university, she didn't like that she was a waitress or that her parents were divorced.

Over the last 10 years nothing has been really said, they mainly just ignore each other but every once in a while there will be "problem" but none of us has ever dealt with it.

I really didn't expect it to get dealt with at wedding, and I think my W knows the same.

Unfortunately when it comes to our R, I think I tend to read too much into either my W's word and actions because I want to see the best - I want to believe that she wants to work it out.

I'm really depressed right now, and I'm thinking that my sitch is only going to end in divorce. My W seems to think that divorce is a very reasonable approach and that as long the H and W are respectable that everyone will be happy. I think she's naive.

I have to get her to goto counselling at least.