Sounds like a very good plan SA. You can pay your respects and the flowers from you and the kids...perfect. I don't blame you not wanting to see OW...

M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing