Im going Monday to see a lawyer, more about the financial situation, we have bills etc, and of course she brings up child support everytime. I need to do whats right for my S, but i can barely afford the bills let alone live. Ive done just about everything i could, sold my truck, driving a beater. saves me some but not enough. I also need more time with my S. Even though he is so young, he doesnt know who he wants to go with when i pick him up, and the same when i drop him off. IMO the back and forth is worse than a 50/50 at this point in his life. I have a very aggressive female Lawyer who got my friend in almost a similiar situation great results. Neither me or my friend wants a divorce, just have to protect ourselves.

Sandi, havent heard from you in a while, what should be my next step.

Forrest Gump what happend to you as well? You are one of the top here on the board in my opinion....


M - 42
W - 41
Married 9 years July 24, 2010
WAW moved out 8-9-10
2nd Marriage for Both
S 2
SS 13 from W first Marriage