Yes, My fear is no matter what I do, I will back here with this W in this M. Reason I say that is I did nothing horrible during our marriage, just normal mistakes... And that got me here? I can't and don't want to spend my life changng for someone who themselves refuses to change. And when I see someone giving 2 years, 10 years of effort to come up empty handed... It saddens me greatly... That is SUFFERING! Life is too short for that. With each passing day, another strand on this rope that ties me to her frays and breaks off. Idk. Sandi I read that yours ended in divorce... Is that correct? You were a WAW, so tell me do I bother? Am I wasting my time? Can I be myself ever again? In life people change... A strong marriage results from spouses who understand and accept those changes (provided they are not hazardous)... I don't have that type of spouse. My W has the mentality that things get broken, just throw it away and get a new one because it's just easier. My biggest struggle... I just can't believe how she treated me and CONTINUES to... I keep that to myself, but it's nearly snuffed my feelings for her.
