Thanks all - I'm thinking that my STBXH has made some resolutions of his own and has sent 4 texts today regarding making plans with S. Then added one that said "hope 2011 is good 4 u" --
God presents me these challenges. I drop the last thread - H initiates contact after months of none?????? By dropping the thread does not mean I have forgiven him. My work is about forgiving me and building my life. S is 17 years old - he knows that I will support him with whatever decisions he makes. He is not ready for a full-on relationship with his father right now although it appears that H may have made a resolution to step up his contact there as well.
I think I'm sent these challenges so that I don't get lazy about these changes I need to make. New year - new view:)
M-48/XH-48 M=25/T=28 years Ds-24,22/S-18 D - 3/11 A Day at a Time