Lorie, I think you'll be surprised how quickly time goes by when you are just doing what you want to do. You'll realize how many things you hadn't done in sometime because HE didn't want to. You know what was the hardest for me? I had to "untwist" the pretzel I had become to stay in the marriage. I had absolutely no idea of who I was or what I wanted from life. It's fun, really fun to discover yourself again. To laugh, to play, to enjoy again. I took a 10-week divorce seminar based on the book by Dr. Bruce Fischer "Rebuilding: When your Relationship Ends." I would highly recommend looking for a support group, or at least reading the book." So, I read TONS of books and just thought about life again. You will be fine, no...you will be better and stronger than you ever imagined; no matter how things work out. Go with the Flow and let things unfold naturally.
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10
