I do think after 18 months you gave it your all. That is a long time, I am not sure I can last that long! It has only been 2 months and I read some of the posts with people still DBing after 2 or 3 years. I don't know what I have in me at this point, but I do know, that letting go of H at this time really gives me the strength to allow him space and time. Do I want my H to work on our marriage, yes, but I have no control over him, only myself. Letting go is empowering me to be the best me I can be so if he chooses to come back fine, if he chooses to not, fine. I just keep telling myself this. I am going to be fine no matter what he chooses.
I know this year is going to be a much better year for all of us!
Lorie W47 H48 D16 M20 H gone 11/9/10 lives w/OW
When you forgive,you heal. When you let go,you grow. When you cry to God, you surrender. When you love unconditionally, you show others Christ's love.
