Originally Posted By: pickle
All I can do at the moment is detach from her drama, enjoy life w/ kids and friends.


Stay on this path...

It is all YOU can do and it is the best thing for you.

Don't know the book but the fact she is reading one in that direction I think is good

But then again she could just read what she wants to read to confirm her own decisions.

So you never know my friend.

That's the rub.

Real growth has to come from her and on her own time.

Someone asked me a while ago:

What does it like like when you will take your W back?

Is it at any cost or what do you need to see?

What do you need to see in yourself?

Are you ready for her to come back IF she says she wants to?

Tough questions.

Think about it.

Happy NEW year.

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am