Need Insight III

[InAPickle]

Thanks for catching up Truegritter.
I was beginning to wonder if any input was coming.

So far MLC W has not made any move toward me that I can tell.
But I'm a guy, so not real big on noticing small things,
unless of course they're getting on my nerves LOL.
After I told her last time I'll just wait for her to file, it seems like she's neither moving toward nor away, but parked. Maybe she's just waiting to file; who knows?

I have made what changes I deemed necessary like getting my 50 yr health checkups and picking up the old guitar and just practicing STFU mostly, however she doesn't say much. Before bomb I already had a life; I liked me then and like me now. I don't know what's not to like.

All sitch talk is initiated by W and it seems to be only about logistics of D and her "escape". She doesn't air her greviences about me personally, so I don't know what to change in response. All I can do at the moment is detach from her drama, enjoy life w/ kids and friends.

I have been doing the unexpected. I used to always come straight home from work to see the kids and help with domestic chores. Couple times I've not come home and gone with friends, b/c I really didn't want to see her after her trip to see OM.

She avoids me in the house; I don't know WTF that's all about. She is reading a self help book. I'll try to sneak a peak and let you know what it is. Maybe someone in the forum might be familiar with it.