You sound really healthy considering all that you are going through. You must have had a good therapist. You sound much better than most LBW's and I know that had to take work to get there.
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When he wants to talk, should I be supportive or should I just simply listen?
Depending on what he says. I don't think you should support anything that is wrong. You can always listen without giving him your thoughts. In fact, listening seems to work better in most cases. If you don't know exactly what to say...you can always tell him that you will have to think about it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!