No it's not detaching. Detaching is a conscience thing. Not because you're sick of trying.
Don't let fear guide your actions. Don't do or not do something because you are afraid of what your spouse is doing. When you show that you are being assertive and taking charge of your life, you'll find that the WAS's hardline stance often softens.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
