Permanent alimony used to be very common. Alimony until the former wife remarried. Now it isn't common at all. 19 years is a long time though. Oh well. I am certainly not racing to get remarried before the alimony runs out. It will happen when it does. I worked part time when each of the kids was little but went to full time in between and had been full time for about 4 years before he filed.
Well I have faith in me. I will be fine.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory