Thurs. S15 had an ortho appt that H was to take him to as I had to work. H came bearing "heating material" and unloaded it by the basement door rather than clear out by the corner as he has been doing. S called me at work to tell me that before they left for the appt. I think he wanted to tell me that his Dad fixed the pickup and brought wood.
H took S to appt. and then they came back home and H cleaned the chimney and he and S got a fire going. The temps started out close to 50 but dropped mid-afternoon into the 20's so I was thankful to come home to a warm house!
I had been home about 20mins and the phone rang and it was H. S answered...H just wanted to know how warm it was in the house and if the fire was going good. This is the first time that he has followed up.
I had been worrying about if H would put money in our acct to cover the house payment...we pay every 2 weeks. H had already paid the support amount for the month but this month he received a 3rd paycheck so I didn't know what he would do. I was going to talk to him and ask if he would help out with it but decided to let it go and see what happened. I did transfer money from savings to cover the payment just in case.
Well, I was very surprised to see that a deposit had been made in the usual amount this morning. I was very relieved!!! I admit that while I didn't have any expectations, I felt really good about the events involving H the last couple of days.
Got busy around the house and checked my email and see a Potential OD announcement from my bank...check the acct and a ONUS withdrawal of the amount H deposited minus $100 had been withdrawn. I am guessing that the whole amount would have been withdrawn had I not transferred the money I put in back out. Talk about my PMA spiraling out of control!!! He no longer has a debit card to this acct but drove 50miles to walk-in and withdraw that money. Apparently, he forgot to cancel that automatic deposit.
I need to admit how stupid I was to not have our joint acct closed. Despite everything that H has done, I guess I just wanted to trust him...yeah, I know, right?
Anyway, I guess Monday morning, I will drive to the bank and get the form for him to sign to get him off this acct. I am tempted to also get busy with the property agreement and get this D overwith. Probably a good thing I have a couple of days to think about all of this and what it means besides the obvious fact that he is still very much in MLC!!!
Ok...so tomorrow is going to be better because it is a New Year, right?
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing
