Hi Antonia, Thanks for your post. Your warmth, caring and compassion really came through in your words and for that I am truly grateful.
Hey Rabbit, I have to say I don't know what's best for me!!! For now I think it is going dark on H and establishing my own life. Tomorrow I could think differently!!
GAG, your ongoing support is so appreciated.You're right....I won't be listening to his spew. That much I have learnt. It is spew, nothing more and he needs to spew in an attempt to reassert his power. I don't need to listen or to take heed of his words as they are not true. I cannot remember how many times he has told me he will never speak to me again.
Update: H invited d to lunch with s. D was indecisive. We considered the options of going or not going and she decided to attend. She said it was strained.S was late arriving so D had 45 mins with him alone with this strained conversation.
Last night H sent me an email asking me if I could please in the near future change my phone account and let him know if I would be keeping that number as he will then close the account. It opened with Hi and finished with thankyou. Given the tension recently I am surprised by the relaxed nature of the communication. I am surprised by the politeness of the email. D is also on that account and H hasn't told her she has to get a new account so not sure why I have to come off but she doesn't.
