Hugs to you too luvless... Dec seems to be the month for it. two other friends who have been dealing with similar situations were both final this month as well.
Happy to report the boys and I had a nice (although very quiet) Christmas.
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011
SOB!!!! I just found out that H was here in the area to see his girlfriend for Christmas and never let the boys know he was here! Not sure why I let that surprise or hurt me... but it does
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011
It would hurt me too, more for the kids than for me which is prob what you are feeling....to know how sad they would be to think their dad cared more about spending time with the girlfriend than with them...that just stinks...
(((NNP))) I have not been on the computer for 2 months so now I have lots of reading to do. I do hope the new year will bring you peace!! My ex can still bug me especially when he hurts our daughter (usually it's about putting his girlfriend first!!) When he does something like that it just makes me believe that getting a divorce was the right thing!
