Spellfire,
Thanks for the advice. I guess I didn't think of it that way. I was trying to appear as though I just didn't care either way. I think I will go with your plan next time and see what happens. Frankly, at this point, I have nothing to lose other than a marriage that is already on life support...

fellonblackdays

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...