Kat, did you have to go to court? I am suprised that you only got 6--did you work during your marriage?
And this was in line with what your L told you? or more??
Ellie, thanks for the links--just what I was looking for!!
It's weird--between what my L says I'll get and what my H's L says--they are WORLDS apart. My L says 7 years up to maybe permanent, but I don't want that. 7 would be GREAT.
His L says I'll get 3. The other guy I went to said he thought 5-6 is about right. But the amounts too are all over the place.
Yes, my H is going downhill I'm afraid--his negativity is affecting his health. He's been depressed about the psoriasis he has had for years, but he just found out he has an enlarged heart. I love the guy, but he just is self-destructing right in front of me. And YES--I worked my BUTT OFF in this marriage--he's an "acts of service" guy and he ran me RAGGED doing things for him. Once he filed I told him "that's it--not the little W any more." I do things occasionally, if I feel like it, since that is his LL.
I don't want another one of those "acts of service" guys ever again--I can spot them a mile away now.lol!
