IB your post sounds so positive and what jumped out at me was that you said you were choosing this wonderful future for yourself. You emerged from this trauma so strong and I find your post really uplifting. Best to you and your kids--hugs!
M45 Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11 Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy "Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying