Working on acceptance and forgiveness

[AntoniaB]

I wanted to add: one thing that has made these holidays difficult for me is the fact that I know I'm still legally married to him but he's off with someone else. I guess I feel like I've had to get through T-giving and Christmas knowing that my legally married husband is celebrating with the OW, and I wanted to at least have New Year's knowing that we were legally severed because I feel like at least then he's not still continuing to betray me. Don't know if that makes sense...