Hi Whitney, I'm so sorry and really feel for you. After much soul searching the last couple of days, I've decided to change my approach from the LRT and be a little more open to the friendship option although obviously at the end of all this, that is not where I'd like to be.

I look at your situation and the ages of yourself and your XW and my STBXH and I are pretty close to where you are. I worry about that myself, particularly since STBXH has concluded that this was one of our problems and is obviously something I can't change - wow, how I wish I could turn the clock back!

I don't really have any words of advice but do know that I'm watching and praying for you and your family for a positive outcome, whatever that may be.

Happy New Year.


Me: 41
STBXH: 36
D: 11
S: 9
BOMB 12/2009
SEPARATED 5/2010
D SERVED BY ME 9/2010
FINAL D When I'm ready