I have stopped checking her emails since I confronted her about the EA. I have checked her cell phone and there was only 1 call to the OM. I have no idea whether the affair has ended.
I do find it strange that she has not yet made a decision. If she is so unhappy with our marriage, OM is so wonderful and I have given her a green light to go then why is she still here?
She did tell me that she has been depressed and I found out that she has been on medication to treat it. There doesn't appear to be a lot of huge mood swings. I think she is very good at hiding her feelings from me and the rest of the family.
This waiting approach is a painful process. I really want to have a followup discussion with her to question status of the OM, but am not sire that this would be helpful.
