GF is in process of leaving/divorcing. My wife is 44 years old. Starting menopause as well. A little background: She had plastic surgery at 38, tummy tuck. We worked out a lot and she didn't like the sag. I was OK with it. Our connection seem to grow emotionally and physically from this. Probably due to how she felt(sexy) because she got the body back that she wanted. I will say she became more concious of how she looked. She has always said I was perfect husband for her and most of the friends we hung out with told her too. Now I think she resents me for it. She is acting opposite of the way she was for the firt 20 years of marriage.
