I backslid a little last night. Tuesday night had gone very well so I thought I would ask my H how he felt. Not the greatest idea. He said he had enjoyed Tuesday as well but still had no idea how he felt about the situation. So I'm going to back off on talks with him until I feel the time is more right. He said he likes how Tuesday went(and so did I) so I'll will just concentrate on spending time together and let worrying about the R sllide for now. He did do the 5 Love Languages survey for me. He is all over the place on that. His first two scores are 8 and the second two are 6. I don't know what that means.