You did good. Do NOT fear. What he did is not a mistake. Be as firm as you want to be. If he backs off, that will be the answer you are looking for. This is it. As Lotus says, six years is a long time. This is not only about him, this is YOU deciding how you want things to be from now on. I sense you are too careful not to "hurt" his feelings. Time to be a little selfish. Now. After a while, you will have to be "reasonable". Now is when you can have the strongest stand. Not sure I explain it right. Love K
