Not full yet...

[Truegritter]

New thread.

First thread

W has PTSD and in MLC
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1954288

Second thread

A man in full
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2056493

And we keep steppin'

[LanceSijan]

Hey Grit welcome to your new thread:

I am glad you are like Jack and follow the rules!

[ericmsant2]

Grit,

In an effort to "self moderate", which ftr, I agree with...can you please change your post to "tutu wearin, scotch drinkin and not full yet".

Thank you

[Truegritter]

You forgot dog playin', Tie wearing, beaver hearter...

Hey I think I'll chaneg my name to beaverheart.

Kinda like Braveheart, only different...

[goodattitudegirl]

Grit,

I wanted to thank you for your last "venting" post. It really helps me to see how others respond to some of the MLC things our walk-aways say, so I very much appreciate you posting your dialogue with W.

I've been at this awhile and this isn't my first rodeo either. Didn't think I'd chosen someone who would throw in the towel without even trying to fix things. I'm currently trying to figure out how to respond to XH's comment "We really had some good times together, but living together was difficult". I liked what you said in that post: "I sure don't want our old M so I agree with you."

It sounds like your W isn't quite roasted yet, but she peeked out for a little basting.

GAG

[PEI]

You forgot dog playin', Tie wearing, beaver hearter...

Hey I think I'll chaneg my name to beaverheart.

Kinda like Braveheart, only different...

... much, much different ... just sayin'

I'll leave you with my favorite William Wallace quote...
"Every man dies, not every man really lives. "

Seems relevant huh ...

Peace
PEI

[Truegritter]

Hello my friends.

Where has Grit been?

Just a figurin' stuff out.

Seems I have come to a cross in the road.

It has been over a year since I found out about OM.

And what a year it has been.

I had to take a break for a while...

I will post all the stuff here.

BUT

Not tonight.

I think my title for the next thread is "A Man full of hope for the future."

I have realized that I want to move forward in my life and that means ...

I have to let go of my W completely.

Live my life and look forward and not behind me where she still walks her path.

If she catches up?

Well then. I'll look at her for who she has become not for who she was or what our M was.

I know for sure in this very moment that I do not want my W back.

Not the one I was married to anyway. I don't want to see that dude I was in the mirror either.

So at the risk of having a this be as long as transvestaballarina post...

I will end it here.

I wish you all a blessed new year!

[dl443322]

Hiya True,

Nice to hear from you.

We all need to take a break at times.

And take stock, too.

You know the drill.

You get to choose how you live your life.

You know what you know and that's good.

Letting go completely, really and truly is a process.

A long, hard one.

But in order to really move forward, a necessary one.

So, keep looking in front of you. Keep looking inside you.

You will be where you need to be in your own time.

Hope this year brings you more clarity, and peace and is filled with good things.

[irishblessings]

Grit -

Great post - may the new year be your best ever!

IB

[warriorshadow]

Gritter Sir,

You must of done a lot of figurin'.

It is amazing to get to a point where you realize you don't

want the old persona wife back? It takes a long time to

get to this point. Think of all of those thoughts that have

been flyin' through your head for this last year. I can safely

say I have been there and done that. Am I as far as you in this?

Not really I think. But I don't think I am that far away from

you either. YOU ARE A GREAT MAN SIR. Your posts have been great!!

Sometimes your posts help me get unstuck but being stuck I am

finding is just part of the program.

So I say CHEERS to you sir as we finish the year out that I hope

was the bottom of the bottom for us all.

I do see great promise in the future for the ones that truly do

the work. The relationships that were born here helped get us

through some heavy chit.

I too am looking forward to a better year ahead. If the last

few months are any indication of how things are going to go,

It might just end up to be AWESOME!!! We certainly have the

choice to make it that way!! You already knew this though

so I am not sure that I even need to mention it.

So... Keep "liven it up" as someone once said and make it

happen!!!!

WS