It is easy to read too much into contacts by the WAS. However, if she is pursuing....that is very good. Whatever you are doing that causes her to want to contact, then you need to continue.
It's hard not to try and figure out what is going on in W's mind. From Dec 22-Dec 29th, I had contact with W 6 out of 8 days. All with her initiating the contact. She even allowed me to come to her mom's house while she was there. We had face to face contact that night. All of this after having VERY LITTLE contact at all the previous 4 weeks.
I have no idea what to think. I haven't heard from her today (Dec 30th) and don't expect to hear from her again until after the New Year's holiday. While I love it that I have actually been able to have conversations with her, even though they have been short, it makes detaching and dropping the rope so much more difficult than if I just didn't talk to her at all.
I just don't know what to think of it all. Any thoughts?
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
