Hello my friends.

Where has Grit been?

Just a figurin' stuff out.

Seems I have come to a cross in the road.

It has been over a year since I found out about OM.

And what a year it has been.

I had to take a break for a while...

I will post all the stuff here.

BUT

Not tonight.

I think my title for the next thread is "A Man full of hope for the future."

I have realized that I want to move forward in my life and that means ...

I have to let go of my W completely.

Live my life and look forward and not behind me where she still walks her path.

If she catches up?

Well then. I'll look at her for who she has become not for who she was or what our M was.

I know for sure in this very moment that I do not want my W back.

Not the one I was married to anyway. I don't want to see that dude I was in the mirror either.

So at the risk of having a this be as long as transvestaballarina post...

I will end it here.

I wish you all a blessed new year!

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am