W calls me at around noon to see if my mom and I have already left for my hometown. she wants to pick up pan and few other things that she left. I tell her that I haven’t left. will text her and let her know when we leave.
W tells me that she is sad that she isn’t spending time with my mom bc she’s been here visiting with me so much. That she enjoys spending time with my mom. Tells me that no one from my side, friends or family, have called her since she left me. I explain that I have asked everyone to leave her alone bc I want to respect her request for space and time. I said that I heard that a couple of my friend's wives had called her. She says yes, but that she didn’t call them back bc she thought that I was talking ‘sh**t’ about her having an affair.
I said ‘no’ that I hadn’t told anyone that. She says, except for her family... referring to the day that I found OM’s number all over our phone records and freaked out. I explain that I was upset and that hopefully she can understand that. She says that I upset her family and caused a lot of problems. W and her sis have not spoken in weeks bc they think things that aren’t true. Bc I said things that are BS.
NOT SURE what she is referring to here. If she means that they think inappropriate relationship when in fact, just friends. Or, referring to things that I said about OM's character.
Memory of conversation hazy here bc subject is OM.
W refers to “hanging out” with OM... how that looked wrong to family so soon after her leaving me... but that shouldn’t be that weird bc she had really been single for long time since I was sleeping on couch for months...
I ended conversation bc I was starting to get annoyed... didn’t want to get into big conversation about OM bc scared to hear anymore and DB rules.
* I text W after my mom and I leave house so that she can go get stuff
* I get text from W a little while later after she had gone to the house:
W: “ wow. that was depressing. you never did need me. you just needed your mom. Glad she’s made it a home for you two.”
* I respond 3 hours later:
ME: “LOL... think she’s the one helping me dress stylish too? She’s enjoying her visiting with me. You never did know how much I needed you and loved you. .. Have a merry xmas W!”
* W immediately responds:
W: “It hurt to see my house no longer my house. I’m glad she’s taking care of you though. Merry Christmas (me).”
I didn’t respond
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
She’s enjoying her visiting with me. You never did know how much I needed you and loved you. .. Have a merry xmas W!”