Update: Over the past few days, she has continued to email me. I think she trying to test me. She stated that she could come over to get her mail on one of two days. One in which I would be in the house and a second day where I was guaranteed not to be in the house. She kept asking me which day I wanted her to visit and I kept putting it back on her. I repeatedly stated that it was her choice.
You are correct, she is trying to test you. This is a good sign (women who are not interested at all wont waste energy on it)... but you did not pass the test, or at least not all of it. She was trying to see if A. you would be decisive and in control, and B. if you were desperate to see her.
You passed part B, but by putting the decision back on her, you failed part A of the test.
Make one of your goals to be completely and utterly decisive about everything that happens from here on out. Do not put the ball back in her court. Make it a goal for your life in general. Emphasis on decisive when it is called for, and not selfish and/or pushy.
Spellfire aka Mike
"Women do not like controlling men. They respect and are attracted to men who control themselves. They ultimately are repelled by men who allow themselves to be controlled." -S&A
