I am so sorry that you are in the middle of the storm right now......
I know it all to well.
Trust me when I say "IT WILL GET BETTER" in time.
I can remember reading DR over and over again hoping and praying to save my marriage and I know that is what you are focused on right now.....God how I remember it, like it was yesterday.
The thing is that you are looking to a technique that you are not actually ready to use yet and to be honest you are not at the Last resort yet not even begun......
First things First
Stay away from your H. It is simple.
It hurts....I know.
BUT
Being around your H = pain for you.
Limit your contact as much as possible. This should be your only focus. I promise you. You will look back and read this later and understand the wisdom in it.
He is like a spinning tornado and you are getting hit by sharp flying objects that he is throwing around and it is causing you immense pain.
I will post more later......
Please know you and your girls are in my thoughts and prayers.
Take Care, Peace.
Formerly "missherlove"
Me49 XW49 M17 T19 S16 D20
Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
