Am I piecing? Just can't tell 2...

[Sad_but_happy]

Also, I'm so afraid to back off physically. Just not sure what to do. Today I left my W a gift for her to find in the car when she went to work. She called and thanked me and said I spoil her. I playfully asked her if I should stop and she said, "no, I love being spoiled".

Soooooo, do I stop pursuing physically and just work on her LL (acts of service and gifts)?

If I have been somewhat physical and stop will she think I'm not being attentive? OR will she feel less pressure and be greatful to be able to work out her physical feelings on her own?

I guess I can be physical without hugs or kissing. Just sitting close and lying close with no expectations.

OK, I'm back to square one on the physical stuff... And will continue gifts and acts of service but not overdo it...