Crossroads

[Kemper]

As of now OM is still not out of the picture as far as I know.

W and I had a few text exchanges today regarding a pay raise she got for her promotion, and also about our boys. The last text exchange has me perplexed.

For those of you that don't know my W was a stay at home mom before all of this happened. I was able to financially support our family on my salary alone. Six months after my W moved out she re-entered the workforce. A few month later she started looking for a part time job that was flexible so she could make extra money. The part time job she found required training but she missed the first class.

Fast forward to today. W texted me to let me know that she is going to the training on Jan 22. She was not sure what the current custody schedule was due to a bunch of changes the month of Dec. We discussed the custody schedule and she asked if I could keep the boys on the 21st. After training W is going to pick them up so they can spend the rest of the weekend with her. I have no issues spending time with my boys or helping W out if we need to switch up schedules.

However, what I am confused about is if my W is serious about reconciliation why is she attending the training? If we were together she wouldn’t need the extra money the part time job would provide. Maybe it is just me but I don’t feel that her actions are consistent with someone that would be moving toward reconciliation.