Old thread seems to be locked. Well either way heres an update, i have back slid bad and now im right back at aquare one. I ended up bothering her about our relationship last night and she became entirely annoyed by me. It seems now like whatever progress i made is gone and whatever nice things she said are once again void. My problem is i dont seem to have my feelings under control, and its frustrating. By the way sandi, no progress with the smoking.