Just start building. Now is really the time to build your DB skills. Always 'take stock' as Michele says in DR. Really look at what your interactions are like. What are each of you doing?
Be clear as to what you want more of in your relationship.
How is what is really going on matching with what you want more of? THEN, look at the aresenal you have in DR/KLA, and start practicing. And it actually gets fun and enjoyable because you aren't on the edge of a breakup. So tweak your behavior, so you build your skillset to build more love.
And look at REAL GIVING. I like Michele's blog on real giving. Search that.
I'm so happy for you!
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001