d1-- Your statistics are not correct, nor about the point of the website. The point of the website is for folks to learn, practice and brainstorm solution oriented techniques described in Divorce Remedy and Keeping Love alive in order to save their marriages. We have a support forum as well if it does not work out. The point is saving and strengthening relationships.
What we never support here is encouraging people to break up. We don't suggest it. If they choose to do so, we don't ridicule them either, we have a forum to help them transition.
No two relationships are exactly the same. Because you chose to move on, it doesn't mean someone else should. Children want both their parents around them, they are not happier if you divorce. They might not tell you that, because when parents are apart, they have to weigh what they say to each parent.
JR-- Have you talked about counseling with your wife? I imagine the Mormon church provides all kinds of support for marriage counseling--is that an option?
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
