Hello all, looks like after 6 + years of DBing (busted it the first time, don't think I'll be able to this time) I will be getting that D sometime in the future (these things take FOREVER!!) So while I wish I could say "near future", I don't think that is happening!
I am in the middle of trying to negotiate things with the help of STBXH's father (my father-in-law: A good and decent man!!) What happened to the apple not falling far from the tree???
Wondering if anyone frequents any on-line forums like this one to look at all the aspects of getting a D--My L seems to offer things as a "need to know basis" and I'm trying to keep her out of it (at $400 an hour!!) and do this with my father-in-law, who doesn't want to see me screwed eating catfood in my old age! Not to mention, he realizes this is his grandson my H wants to screw also!
Poor, poor H. He is one messed up puppy!! He vascilated this Xmas between wanting me to go Xmas shopping with him, doing our old Xmas traditions, and screaming his head off about the D. I tried--Lord knows, I did try. He's done some bizarre things in the past, but the day after Xmas while I was visiting my cousin (and I did invite H to go) he calls me to find out what happened to his work shoes--which, I don't have a clue?...
So when I got home I found all my shoes had been thrown at my bed (I am in the spare bedroom) with BIG chunks taken out of the wall over my pillow and all my shoes stuffed down the side and under my bed. Okaaaaay....
He of course doesn't say a word, and I take pictures....
Well, it's what it is. I need to get this over with I guess. I didn't want it, but perhaps in a cosmic sort-of-way, it is for the best...
