Glad you're feeling better!

Yes, that's the weird thing about online dating - you're often juggling multiple potential dates. I'm not good at it - I tend to get interested in one person at a time. But I can see that is part of why I'm still dateless 6 months later! Too much time wasted on one potential date at a time who didn't pan out, when I should have still been putting the effort into meeting more people online.

I'm all for getting the quick coffee date out of the way first, you can usually tell right away if you're interested or not. My goal is to start going on more of those. It is a numbers game I think.