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The words may have a bad smell, you may say I am antimarriage...

I am not.

After a year of spiraling in the world of "grey", I had enough. I needed to be there for my sons. If I am not healthy, I can't be there for them.

So at a certain point, you have say enough is enough. If you look at the success stories, there are roughly 3%. The point of this website is to build strength so you can make it if your marriage doesn't work.

You can stay in the fetal position for years or you can say that it is time I take back control of my life. As a father of three boys as well, they need you more than you could ever imagine...Not just being present, but being there. You need to get healthy for them. Mine would ask me why don't you smile, what is wrong, are you sad??

Now we are having the best time on the 3 days a week I have them living with me.

But at a certain point, a decision has to be made...