GAG - WOW...another great evening with XH....as far as I can see there is continues slow but steady progress...it may be one step forwards 1/2 step back...but don't let that discourage you....XH was down due to other things happening in his life....had nothing to do with you....the opposite, he couldn't get enough of your company....hence the drinks (that's huge)....you are his safe harbor...no conflict, just comfort. Stay on this path...slow and steady smile

I also like that he shows concern for you, starting to do things for you, shows consideration, slowly allowing you into his life and social circle...

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kinda wondering if I should ask XH to a movie
the advice we usually get here is to let them come to us....follow their lead....but I think that in your situation I would probably ask...."I'm going to see (insert film he would be interested in) and I thought of you, seems like a movie you would like, would you like to join me?....I think that would be OK considering your recent interactions...just my opinion

Can't wait for your next posting smile


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M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO