Well maybe that's not the best way to put it. I think someone here has posted a list of do's and don'ts. I don't like lists ;-) I think people tend to get too caught up in the acronyms. I prefer to look at what I need to do rather than what I call it.
I think for me the biggest thing was 1. realizing that I couldn't change my wife, but I could change me. 2. I never thought that the M couldn't be saved.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
