sleeper - they are clueless.....i often wonder when i am with my boys who are both now over 18...but will always be the kids and I look forward to time with them more than ever, that will never change....but i do sometimes struggle with the resentment of the times the kids are always missing the other parent and the the times I am not the parent with them...its all so not worth it...i know i say that has the lbs not the mlcer or walker (runner) but i have to wonder...they cant possibly still think it is worth it...
my x married the ow on feb 2010 we divorced 10/3/08, bomb 2005 - timeline clost to yours....but we dont talk much at all, his guilt and shame are too consuming.
I get down about what our society has done to marriage , dovorce and remarriage. I have spent some time studying since all of this and from what i can discern....Marriage is a permanat state till death of one spouse. Too much to write here and this is not a Christian web site anyway..but what i am saying while bowrl wites some nice thoughts, God may have laid something on our heart you cant ignore, only you know.
