Additionally I see that you have children. Have you talked with a L to see how it would look if you moved out? I am only asking because I want to ensure you are protecting yourself. In my state both my L and W's L insisted that neither of us move out of the house without a move out agreement. It might have been overkill but it was so that the person moving out couldn't be gone after for abandonment.
Yes, walking all over was probably extreme but you got the idea.
M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3 M: 5/28/05 Bomb: 8/22/09 EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09 W L: 10/21/09 M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10