So lets get this straight. She wanted the house anyway. She wants a D. All you're essentially doing is giving her a D without it actually being on paper it seems.
Did you want the house? It sounds like she "slowed" things down when all she's doing is getting what she wants sooner.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.