The decision to leave is yours. But IMO if I had left my home I would be miserable. If you don't think you couldn't be any more miserable than you are now, you're wrong. Try not seeing your kids when you want to.
If your W isn't reacting positively to you being around, that is still HER problem not yours. Unless you have been abusive to her or have been bugging the crap out of her, then it is her problem. Have you been keeping interactions with her to a minimum? What does she actually have to lose with you leaving? Doesn't sound like anything. Whereas you are going to have to pay for a new place, pay for new stuff and see your kids when she feels like it. Doesn't sound like a win situation for you at all.
My W was acting the same way. But when she left, I told her that I would like her to stay, however if she wants to leave, that is her decision. I stood firm for what I believed. My home and my family. She was welcome to join it or leave it. She chose to leave and has been miserable.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
